{"id":8087,"date":"2018-10-09T14:39:46","date_gmt":"2018-10-09T14:39:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.repeatright.com\/?p=8087"},"modified":"2018-10-09T14:41:59","modified_gmt":"2018-10-09T14:41:59","slug":"gilbert-elizabeth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.repeatright.com\/engine\/gilbert-elizabeth\/","title":{"rendered":"GILBERT, Elizabeth"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1453315804311{margin-top: -40px !important;border-top-width: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_tta_tabs style=&#8221;modern&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; active_section=&#8221;1&#8243;][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-book&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Citation&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531588223-e020d87d-f7dd094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<blockquote><p>\u201cInfatuation is not quite the same thing as love; it\u2019s more like love\u2019s shady second cousin who\u2019s always borrowing money and can\u2019t hold down a job.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">~<strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>, American author<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 90px\"><em>Committed: A Love Story<\/em> (2010) London: Bloomsbury, 2010, p. 101<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-plus-circle&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Context&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531588755-96303790-852e094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p><strong><em>Extended excerpt<\/em><\/strong> [From chapter four \u2013 \u2018Marriage and Infatuation\u2019]:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe problem with infatuation, of course, is that it\u2019s a mirage, a trick of the eye \u2013 indeed, a trick of the endocrine system.<span style=\"color: #003380\"> Infatuation is not quite the same thing as love; it\u2019s more like love\u2019s shady second cousin who\u2019s always borrowing money and can\u2019t hold down a job.<\/span> When you become infatuated with somebody, you\u2019re not really looking at that person; you\u2019re just captivated by your own reflection, intoxicated by a dream of completion that you have projected on a virtual stranger.\u201d (p. 101)<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Source note<\/em><\/strong>: Extended book title &#8211;\u00a0<em>Committed: A Love Story <\/em>or<em> Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-search&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Source ISBN&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531589797-29580b31-8c50094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #cc7a00\"><strong><em>Source<\/em><\/strong><\/span>: Library \u2013 <em>Committed: A Love Story<\/em> (2010) International Standard Book Number (ISBN) 978-1-4088-0576-3<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][\/vc_tta_tabs][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_tta_tabs style=&#8221;modern&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; active_section=&#8221;1&#8243;][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-book&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Citation&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315829087-ce67c619-0fbc5381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<blockquote><p>\u201c<strong>P<\/strong>erfectionism is just fear in fancy shoes and a mink coat.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">~<strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>, American author<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear<\/em> (22 September 2015) New York: Riverhead Books\/Penguin Random House, September 2016, p. 167<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-plus-circle&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Context&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315829475-7c82a017-1e625381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p><strong><em>Extended excerpt<\/em><\/strong> [Non-fiction]:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think <span style=\"color: #003380\">perfectionism is just fear in fancy shoes and a mink coat,<\/span> pretending to be elegant when actually it\u2019s just terrified. Because underneath that shiny veneer, perfectionism is nothing more than a deep existential angst that says, again and again, \u2018I am not good enough and I will never be good enough.\u201d (p. 167)<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-search&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Source ISBN&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315829682-63e8fade-cf4c5381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #cc7a00\"><em><strong>Source<\/strong><\/em><\/span>: Library &#8211; <em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear<\/em> (22 September 2015) International Standard Book Number (ISBN) 978-159463471-0<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][\/vc_tta_tabs][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1453316221301{margin-top: 0px !important;border-top-width: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_tta_tabs style=&#8221;modern&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; active_section=&#8221;1&#8243;][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-book&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Citation&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315828001-b5e2e52e-ea1e5381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<blockquote><p>\u201cTo be fully seen by somebody, and be loved anyhow \u2013 this is a human offering that borders on miraculous.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">~<strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>, American author<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><em>Committed: A Love Story<\/em> (2010) London: Bloomsbury, 2010, p. 131<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-plus-circle&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Context&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315828385-86abfac4-79bf5381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p><strong><em>Excerpt<\/em><\/strong> [From chapter four \u2013 \u2018Marriage and Infatuation\u2019]:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo be fully seen by somebody, and be loved anyhow \u2013 this is a human offering that borders on miraculous.\u201d (p. 131)<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Source note<\/em><\/strong>: Extended book title &#8211;\u00a0<em>Committed: A Love Story <\/em>or<em> Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage<\/em><\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-search&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Source ISBN&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1453315828572-dac97b48-68e05381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #cc7a00\"><strong><em>Source<\/em><\/strong><\/span>: Library \u2013 <em>Committed: A Love Story<\/em> (2010) International Standard Book Number (ISBN) 978-1-4088-0576-3<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][\/vc_tta_tabs][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_tta_tabs style=&#8221;modern&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; active_section=&#8221;1&#8243;][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-book&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Citation&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531591105-7edf5f39-feaa094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<blockquote><p>\u201c<strong>W<\/strong>hile the paths and outcomes of creative living will vary wildly from person to person, I can guarantee you this: A creative life is an amplified life. It\u2019s a bigger life, a happier life, an expanded life, and a hell of a lot more interesting life. Living in this manner \u2013 continually and stubbornly bringing forth the jewels that are hidden within you \u2013 <em>is<\/em> a fine art, in and of itself.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\">~<strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>, American author<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px\"><em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear<\/em> (22 September 2015) New York: Riverhead Books\/Penguin Random House, September 2016, p. 12<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-plus-circle&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Context&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531591631-43861bc7-da28094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p><strong><em>Extended excerpt<\/em><\/strong> [Non-fiction]:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd <span style=\"color: #003380\">while the paths and outcomes of creative living will vary wildly from person to person, I can guarantee you this: A creative life is an amplified life. It\u2019s a bigger life, a happier life, an expanded life, and a hell of a lot more interesting life. Living in this manner \u2013 continually and stubbornly bringing forth the jewels that are hidden within you \u2013 <em>is<\/em> a fine art, in and of itself.<\/span>\u201d (p. 12)<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-search&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Source ISBN&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531592891-f39e055b-a66e094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;]\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #cc7a00\"><strong><em>Source<\/em><\/strong><\/span>: Library &#8211; <em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear<\/em> (22 September 2015) International Standard Book Number (ISBN) 978-159463471-0<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][\/vc_tta_tabs][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h4 class=\"section-title\">Resources<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221; el_class=&#8221;Wrapper-Author-Resources&#8221;]<span style=\"color: #b04b04\"><strong>Learn more about Elizabeth Gilbert\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>| Here are a few good places to start &#8211;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong> \u2013 Official author website. Resources include a brief biography, book information, video &amp; podcast presentations, blog updates (through 2015), and upcoming event calendar feed: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethgilbert.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.elizabethgilbert.com\/<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u2018<strong>Your elusive creative genius<\/strong>\u2019 (February 2009) <strong>TED <\/strong>\u2013 Gilbert\u2019s presentation at the Long Beach, CA TED conference; transcript &amp; video (19:24) online via TED: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/elizabeth_gilbert_on_genius\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/elizabeth_gilbert_on_genius<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u2018<strong>Big Think Interview with Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>\u2019 (2012) <strong>Big Think<\/strong> interview (video \u2013 51:31) online via Big Think &amp; YouTube: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=bs2IognqkJI\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=bs2IognqkJI<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u2018<strong>Live to Your Potential: Life-Changing Lessons for All from Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong>\u2019 (12 May 2010) <strong>Oprah Magazine<\/strong> \u2013 Gilbert\u2019s presentation from Oprah Winfrey\u2019s \u201cLive Your Best Life\u201d weekend (video \u2013 21:16) online via Oprah.com: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/omagazine\/elizabeth-gilbert-talk-from-o-magazines-10th-anniversary-video\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/omagazine\/elizabeth-gilbert-talk-from-o-magazines-10th-anniversary-video<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u2018<strong>Elizabeth Gilbert on Big Magic and Why She Loves Social Media<\/strong>\u2019 (21 September 2015) <strong>Vogue<\/strong> magazine interview by Megan O\u2019Grady: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/elizabeth-gilbert-interview-big-magic\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/elizabeth-gilbert-interview-big-magic<\/a><\/li>\n<li>\u2018<strong>The Muse of the Coyote Ugly Saloon<\/strong>\u2019 (4 June 2012)<strong> GQ<\/strong> \u2013 \u201cWhen I was new at my bartending job, the owner of the Coyote Ugly Saloon told me, &#8220;If anyone ever comes into this place and asks for a mud slide, a zombie or a grasshopper, go ahead and make the drink. Then charge the guy fifteen bucks for it. Then take him outside and beat the shit out of him. Because this is not that kind of bar.&#8221;: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gq.com\/story\/elizabeth-gilbert-gq-march-1997-muse-coyote-ugly-saloon\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.gq.com\/story\/elizabeth-gilbert-gq-march-1997-muse-coyote-ugly-saloon<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong> |<strong> Instagram <\/strong>&#8211; @<strong>elizabeth_gilbert_writer<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/elizabeth_gilbert_writer\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/elizabeth_gilbert_writer\/<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert<\/strong> | <strong>Twitter<\/strong> &#8211; @<strong>GilbertLiz<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/gilbertliz\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/twitter.com\/gilbertliz<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000080\"><strong><em>Image link<\/em><\/strong><\/span>:GILBERT, Elizabeth (5 February 2009) Photo: Steve Jurvetson \u201cAmusing Muses\u201d; Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic (CC BY 2.0); via Steve Jurvetson, Flickr: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/jurvetson\/3267839139\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/jurvetson\/3267839139\/<\/a> [Repeat Right edit \u2013 Tone, size]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1453315804311{margin-top: -40px !important;border-top-width: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_tta_tabs style=&#8221;modern&#8221; shape=&#8221;square&#8221; active_section=&#8221;1&#8243;][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-book&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Citation&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531588223-e020d87d-f7dd094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;] \u201cInfatuation is not quite the same thing as love; it\u2019s more like love\u2019s shady second cousin who\u2019s always borrowing money and can\u2019t hold down a job.\u201d ~Elizabeth Gilbert, American author Committed: A Love Story (2010) London: Bloomsbury, 2010, p. 101 [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section i_icon_fontawesome=&#8221;fa fa-plus-circle&#8221; add_icon=&#8221;true&#8221; title=&#8221;Context&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1449531588755-96303790-852e094f-cf635381-89e5486b-50b8&#8243;][vc_column_text css_animation=&#8221;none&#8221;] Extended excerpt [From chapter four \u2013 \u2018Marriage and Infatuation\u2019]: \u201cThe problem with infatuation, of course, is that it\u2019s a mirage, a trick of the eye \u2013 indeed, a trick of the endocrine system. 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